Ever had a love that you
compare every single one after that to? It seems no one can match up. They were
perfect for you in every way. Wake up your dreaming! There's a reason why
he/she is an EX.
For those of us still in
a slumber of dreamland. Here are 5 signs that can help you decide whether you
want to keep going or is it time for you to wake up?
5 Signs
1. You cry more than you smile
There will always be
rough times in a relationships. Real love stands these test by coming together
and making it through. No one on earth is perfect. So how can we expect the
relationship to be? However, if your relationship consist of mostly tears, not
tears of joy, then maybe you should take a time out. Love is difficult yes but
it shouldn't hurt more than it heals.
2. You're stagnant
Have you made any
progress in your personal or professional life? Did you have dreams ideas and
aspirations that have gone nowhere? This could be a sign. Your
mate should support your dreams, even if your head is in the clouds, they
should to be there supporting you. Sometimes support is bringing you back to
earth.
3. Friends are desensitized
So you visit your best friend
to tell him/her of the most recent drama and they don't even blink, flinch, or
budge. This means they are used the drama that ensues between you two. You
should be worried when your friends aren't worried. It's a sign they have given
up on your train of thought. They are exhausted as you probably should be.
4. When you are together you feel alone
You rush to your mate to
share the most exciting news, only to receive a half-hearted "That's
great". Or you sit down for a dinner and there's only the sound of
silverware grazing the plates. Are you feeling like you are not in a
relationship? Maybe you aren't.
5. The actions don’t reflect the words
Someone’s actions can
speak volumes. Louder than words right? So if you’re hearing I love you, I need
you, I don’t want anyone but you, you complete me or you had me at hello
but you are eye witnessing something completely different this a sure
sign.
Here's the Deal
Love is an emotion, a
strong, potent, intoxicating, invisible, entity that we can see the effects of
even though we can’t hold it in our hands. Much like the wind you feel the cool
breeze when it blows but when it stops, you can feel the difference.
Now unless you hit 1-5
on here don’t just call it quits with your lover. Communication is key. Have a
real conversation, if possible, about improving the relationship, adding spice
adding adventure, bringing the spark back, afford them a chance, if nothing
changes after that, then sell the farm and hit the highway! Single Life here you Come!